So hw do u kw when it is time 2 break up rather than make up? If u hav had a big argument abou something, think hard abou wad it was all abou - & think fairly too! Was it something tt he said or did? Did he gt bent out of shape bcoz of something you said 2 his friends? Should 1 of u apologize? If e answer is an apology, & if u believe tt u r really in love wif him, then think hard abou being e 1 2 apologize. If it's up 2 your bf 2 sae sorry, don't make it diffcult 4 him when he does try.
In e world of romance, e old sae of "pride comes b4 a fall" is often true if u don't let him apologize & u split up as a result, u'll only hav yourself 2 blame later on when u start 2 regret tt u r no longer an item.
On e other hand, maybe u don't really want 2 make up wif your bf.
Hav u had jus 2^ many arguments? Do you think tt he's no longer much fun 2 b wif? Does he spend 2^ much time wif his friends & nt enought wif u?
If any of these things r true, don't let your relationship drag on indefinitely if it's not wad u wan. However much u think your bf wil b hurt, it's better 2 tel him st8 rather drag on wif u resenting it. If u do this, u'll almost certainly start 2 treat your bf unkindly: u'll probably start criticizing him, gt irritated by his jokes & habits, & start looking miserable when u r wif him. U may also start 2 make excuses about y u cant go out wif him.
Remember, in e world of romance "sometimes u hav 2 b cruel 2 b kind." in other words, even if u think tt telling him u wan 2 break up is going 2 hurt him like crazy , it will hurt him less in e long run if u tel him e truth nw.
Be strong enough 2 bring e relationship 2 an end rather than dragging it on when it’s going nowhere.
Colin
9:54 PM
Sunday, October 29, 2006
what's love? for me and for u guys out there? DEFINE
=^.^= Actually any love or BGR which makes u feel bad or sad is nt rite 4 us. If u ever considering u gt blues in your BGR, u should think seriously abou whether or nt u can change your BGR - or whether you should gt out of it 4 gd.
Life SHORT perhap something which does not make u happy anymore 2 carry on.
If u r deeply in love wif. Probably almost impossible 2 imagine a future when u no longer love him or, perhaps worse yet, when he no longer loves u. Sometimes, as time passes, 2 people realize tt they hav simply grown out of love wif each other - being together is no longer wad's best 4 them both.
However & whenever e moment of breaking up comes, e best bet is 2 handle it carefully & wif respect 4 both yourself & him. Jus bcoz u no longer love each other doesn't mean u shouldn't care 4 each other anymore - after all, you hav had some really GREAT times 2gether so don't try 2 make out all tt time was wasted.
Colin
10:47 PM
Saturday, October 28, 2006
Saw your beloved one to a depth changing Because love, he receives his stubborn temperament Because love, he heart which all thanks to others Because love, he also turns yours interest is his interest Love a person not having any reason His regretless payout all thought is worth So long as fall in love in same place Actually our side has such people Only is we does not have the discovery The person who understand you most Always continuously protect you by your side Does not let you have a grievance The person who truly love you Can’t say many likes speech Being able to do many loves matter If your side has such person Treasurewell..