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Monday, October 30, 2006

So hw do u kw when it is time 2 break up rather than make up?
If u hav had a big argument abou something, think hard abou wad it was all abou - & think fairly too!
Was it something tt he said or did?
Did he gt bent out of shape bcoz of something you said 2 his friends?
Should 1 of u apologize?
If e answer is an apology, & if u believe tt u r really in love wif him, then think hard abou being e 1 2 apologize.
If it's up 2 your bf 2 sae sorry, don't make it diffcult 4 him when he does try.

In e world of romance, e old sae of "pride comes b4 a fall" is often true if u don't let him apologize & u split up as a result, u'll only hav yourself 2 blame later on when u start 2 regret tt u r no longer an item.

On e other hand, maybe u don't really want 2 make up wif your bf.

Hav u had jus 2^ many arguments?
Do you think tt he's no longer much fun 2 b wif?
Does he spend 2^ much time wif his friends & nt enought wif u?

If any of these things r true, don't let your relationship drag on indefinitely if it's not wad u wan.
However much u think your bf wil b hurt, it's better 2 tel him st8 rather drag on wif u resenting it.
If u do this, u'll almost certainly start 2 treat your bf unkindly: u'll probably start criticizing him, gt irritated by his jokes & habits, & start looking miserable when u r wif him.
U may also start 2 make excuses about y u cant go out wif him.

Remember, in e world of romance "sometimes u hav 2 b cruel 2 b kind." in other words, even if u think tt telling him u wan 2 break up is going 2 hurt him like crazy , it will hurt him less in e long run if u tel him e truth nw.

Be strong enough 2 bring e relationship 2 an end rather than dragging it on when it’s going nowhere.


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